Trust the vibes.

In the world of plastics, machinery, war, envy, we humans of the multiverse, just gain happiness by small gadgets, few memories, good people, and leisure. Is this human going wrong somewhere?

I certainly do not feel that way!

We all are surrounded by vibes (i.e. the atmosphere around us), need not be good/bad, but vibes, which make us perform our actions, which makes us think the other way round, which makes us a person who we are, now, reading this post, and thinking of what we are, right now.

We all always need happiness, we always need good vibes, we don't like hate, but very vise versa, not bold to take back the hate.

But that's what we are made of, our kind is manufactured with this disadvantage called feelings.

Surprisingly, these feelings are stimulated but minute things! For me, a photograph would bring up the sun and the moon together in the sky! You would surely have something like this

Give it a thought?

..

..

Yes, I'll wait.

But if that thing is in your mind, already, let's give it a go.

A photograph for me takes me back to the time we were still, there, enjoying the time, having a talk, which was not recorded but engraved in the heart. It fills up depression and changes 'the vibe' around me.

Now, what if, this photograph, which brings the butterflies in my life, is just taken away from me?
Without any prior notice?
Deleted?
Or shifted to the spam box?

Wouldn't it be a dull side to my life?

This thought always stays in mind. But this world of envy surely brings hills and dales in our life. It would directly or indirectly just take away the source which gives you a smile, for nature is wide, and it becomes a challenge for you, to smile wider.

So the vibe eaters, break your vibe, break it without hesitation.

Let's frame the concept, like this:

 Why do you wear shoes?

Just because it's dirty outside and we don't want glass or pebbles to hurt us. So let's learn with math, consider glass and pebbles in your way as bad vibes and shoes as good vibes.

As a result, you stay the happiest if you let your good vibe coat over yourself and keep walking, keep running and don't stop, just don't stop.💞

So, let us also have our laces tied tight, and soul and sole strong, and let the world count your steps where you, pave away your vibe destroyers.

Words from the wise!

// I touch 4 topics in this post which has a message to people who assume that you are bragging. Secondly, I touch the term called as ‘being under false expectations’. Thirdly, I talk about how pressure is good for people to perform well and lastly giving you all a short story on how to kill ‘insecurities’ in life. Peace. //

S.H.O.O.T

“We are soon, going to start our life with many new ideas, execute it, work on it and shape it in a different way, that there might be a time in your life when the people you hang out with, the people you have around yourself almost at every tick of a clock, will not relate to your idea! Life will change, priorities will change, income will change, what we do now and will do later might change, and probably if we are lucky, life will be amazing! And when you share your 'amazing' life experiences with someone from your old comrades, they will take it as you are bragging and if people peruse your reality of life as you are bragging about it, Trust me! That’s not bad!”

// because if people get jealous of what makes you happy, there can be no victory greater than this! //

For the people who assume you are bragging:

"When you think that your mate is successful because they have a better network, they reached the place before you could or maybe because their fortune was very bright, these assumptions might be VERY TRUE, but at the outset, it is surely going to somehow affect your life at large!

These little successes of your pals bring a great difference in real life, but you would never be able to move forward by pointing fingers, raising issues or self-assumptions by letting them down. This situation can give you voluntary happiness and a feeling of being under the fair rainbow, 'I deserve' rainbow!

But the shine in you will only glow when 'that's not fair' gets transformed to 'concentrate on yourself'. That is when you can do it too!"

// Sometimes life is not fair, but surely complaining or cribbing about it won’t help and as you have no option but to ‘go with the flow’, so why not accept the fact in the first call? //

For people to succeed:

"People prefer being in comfort zone but the real jewel is to perfectly perform. There are many things that can be done, just for the sake of doing it but the work that would be appreciated will be the one which is done under pressure. Just like a diamond requires pressure to have a perfect shape, for its beauty, for being what it is known for, and also for precision, it gets its value higher and something that not everyone could afford. This diamond looks beautiful but when spoken, tells us that if we choose not to work under pressure but relax and do the same work, we will have our future as dark as diamond with a coat, black and dusty, impure and coal.

 The world revolves around 'No pressure, No performance' and we try to avoid this mantra as we are told to, so why not just let pressure help to dig into your talents? And if dug already, why not make it perfectly performed?

// ‘The rarer, the better’, but people choose not to be the diamond on self-destruction purposes. What a pity! // 

*This story will kill your insecurities. Read every word with care.

There is a terrible fight between two wolves.

One is evil. He is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, pity, ignorant, self-pity, false pride, superiority... AND EGO.

The other is good. He is joy, happy, peace, love, hope, humanity, considerate, empathy, generosity, truth… AND FAITH.

// the same fight is going inside you and inside every other person too. //

“And which wolf wins?” you asked.

“The one you feed”

😉 P.E.A.C.E

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The troll of living: Love

“Loving can hurt

Loving can hurt sometimes,

But it's the only thing that I know

When it gets hard,

You know it can get hard sometimes

It is the only thing that makes us feel alive!”

[Photograph - Ed Sheeran]

There is a thin thread between being happy and being unhappy, that thread is of love! (and that thread can bring more happiness or sadness, depends on the individual.)

Being in love is the best feeling anyone can have, where both the people act to love each other truly, care for each other and want people to stay happy, blah blah blah... where they play games in the name of loyalty and sacrifice using big terms like 'forever/for life' and end up laughing on the commitments they made. Marriage is another story.

15-year-old children, these days, be like "We are goals", "I don't need oxygen, I need you.”, “My heart is yours, and we are going to marry" and this crap goes on.

P.S to all these teen couples.

"Most of the love stories in India get ruined because of the Caste system and the rest are ruined by the awkward position of the planets."

And it is so beautiful to see people getting attached to each other and this attachment doesn't let him away. This beautiful scene, I would like to frame it as: All day chatting is not called attachment. When someone emails you and adds an image to it, is called attachment!

Posting pictures all day, and having cute pictures with copied captions from www.google.com makes many friends jealous and increases your "VATT" (image) in the society, But if buttons like "Dislike", "We get it, you're a happy couple", "You're trying too hard”, “TOO MUCH DRAMA", "This shit, again?" existed, it would be another story.

But it is really bliss staying in love and concluding by saying:

"Give love a chance, even the world war happened twice"

Let's move from "Being happy in love" to "love being unhappy"

I like you but as a friend.

The word "friend" never hurt him more.

and this gives rise to a condition where stress, stresses us to a point where we are too stressed to deal with our stress and this term is called stress.

And if you love someone who doesn't love you back, you are indeed waiting for a ship at the airport.

and to all my single buddies out here! whenever she says "Bhul jaao mujhe"

You need to explain this to her "ki humne ratta nahi maara hai, concept clear hai"

But we are humans, and following the human tendency, we always have dreams like:

Me: someday I will be someone's first priority!

where, the reply is like:

someday: HAHAHAHA

someone's: HAHAHAHA

first: HAHAHAHA

priority: HAHAHAHA

Abhi tho phone ki bhi setting hai, bas meri nahi hai!😫

For an instance, If you are assuming that the person loves you, when you are not sure is “Khud ko pagal banana ki ninja technique ding ding ding ding ding”

And if anyone will ask you, “How is your love life?”

You can really express it well how you waste your day scrolling and switching from Instagram to Whatsapp and then Facebook for hours, staring at the happy couples and estimating their validity.

This ad which I saw while I was on my way back home, read as:

“   GOT DITCHED BY YOUR GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND?

      Go to the top floor of the highest building you know.

And think inta bada city hai, koi tho mil jayega.  ”

Concluding ‘anti love’ session by saying…

Fall in love? Just to feel momentary happiness, where you can share your ice cream and smile all your way along your partner and end up with slamming doors and screams, sure! Where do I sign up?

But, as I spoke about human tendency! Its again going to end with…

“Wise men say only fools rush in
But I can't help falling in love with you
Shall I stay
Would it be a sin
If I can't help falling in love with you”

[Elvis Presley - Can't Help Falling In Love ]

All the best!

The soul speaks today..

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“For the people who are vegetarian, this is ESPECIALLY for you all. I understand the fact that having non-veg hurts your feelings to another extend, it kills you to have a killed animal but for God’s sake, the term ‘I am a vegetarian except for eggs’ is not a term.. this is just like ‘yeah, and I’m rich except for money’. Kya yaar, Paneer samaj karke khale”

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Ever heard about the ‘Go-green’ trend? Whoa, if you haven’t actually heard this, let me tell you…It is in VOGUE and go green will surely not ‘go’ green until it goes black. The Smartest of the smarts didn’t actually realize that we are following this ‘perfectly-circled’ loop which crystal clearly shows:

“We the children of Almighty, are cutting more trees just to make paper, and in turn writing ‘Save trees’ on the same paper!”

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“Making and breaking in this world, keeps taking place and getting this to my favorite rant topic ‘love’, let’s do this..

Poor guys, like starting with the 1000 problems which the girls have, we have this equal problem is being a crush, and being crushed. This process never stops and OH MY MY, so much cliché was not seen in ‘Karan Johar’ and his movies. So as the only light, the only left hope, being the messenger of God, I would like to give you one of the best example…!!

When Kangana could be Aditya Pancholi’s girlfriend, Jacqueline could be Sajid Khan’s Girlfriend and Aishwarya can make Abhishek’s baby, why on earth are you even scared to ask her out?”

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“Like why is just ‘Prince Ea’ thinking about the disgrace our education system is going through? Ever been to the beach where we enjoy seeing monkeys dancing? It’s so hilarious to see us in the same situation but not with the leash. This extra-ordinary system has just bind us to the fate that the truth is now has become so main-stream. Education has turned as another joke which the comedian cracks, and yes! We laugh, laugh on it, because something else could not be funnier than this. And being in the shoes of comedians, let me crack one!

“It has been such a beauty of Education that the diversity we want in India shows that a photographer, the author, the painter, the singer, the actor are today sitting in the same room trying to pass an ‘Engineering’ semester.”

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