Let me clear this at the start, this post is not about woman empowerment or feminism. This post is about how "we" all make tiny mistakes that could lead to a major problem later.
Everyone goes across rejection in life. Personally speaking, I would never like to be rejected because I would'nt like to be turned down because I never expected that to happen to me. But when such a situation arises and if the rejection is by a girl, that doesn't give me a right to call her out with names/ spread rumours about her because of my inner-guilt.
My first topic is: Inappropriate words.
We all use inappropriate words when in rage, but doing it in a situation doesn't make it right.
Honestly, the words used by "us" are so inappropriate that I cannot even type them down.
You ask why?
Because I know you all would be reading it and that would make me look evil/ horrible as a human.
There is a simple way to avoid those words/allegations about women. We all must imagine ourselves to be in a discussion where a crowd is listening to us, and we are forced to use the same words to explain our rage. When you put yourself into a situation where you might have to say the same in front of everyone, you find yourself guilty and know to avoid using such words.
Thinking for a second before using words like "s***", "wh***" and many more would make living easier for both, the one who would be guilty of using it and the other who is wrongly called on.
My next topic is: Rumors.
See, if you once throw garbage in a clean sea, it wouldn't make much of a difference. But if you constantly feed the sea with the garbage, the sea gets polluted.
We all have been a victim and also have accused in this topic. We love gossiping and that is why Bigg Boss basically keeps running for years. We love to present with hot gossips as that brings us into the limelight of the conversation. We often forget that the words we use, the way we frame the story whether true/false would spoil someone's image.
Let us assume that someone goes around with a rumour saying to their friends that, "Manav has been dumped by some girl". This would be a laughing stock for many but what we don't realize is that we form an imaginary picture of not only Manav getting dumped and him being a loser but also of the girl being evil to dump and playing with Manav's feelings.
So just to stay in the spotlight to be charmed by others, we end up creating a negative picture of 2 people over an issue that we don't even know is true/not.
My next topic is: Positivity
We all have to realize that the mind is dangerous and it gets distracted by the silliest things ever. Negativity kills the normal functioning of the brain and all we do is fill each other with negativity.
We have to change "I cannot do it" to "Let's see if I can do it"
We have to change "I'm really sorry for being late" to "Thank you for waiting for me"
A little change in our thinking would create wonders.
Let us all keep in mind that we all are humans after all. We make mistakes, we have good and bad days. We all have done the things, I mentioned above. We just need the courage to admit the fault and make a promise to avoid it.
Let us, together make it easier for humans on this planet.
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