The troll of living: Love

“Loving can hurt

Loving can hurt sometimes,

But it's the only thing that I know

When it gets hard,

You know it can get hard sometimes

It is the only thing that makes us feel alive!”

[Photograph - Ed Sheeran]

There is a thin thread between being happy and being unhappy, that thread is of love! (and that thread can bring more happiness or sadness, depends on the individual.)

Being in love is the best feeling anyone can have, where both the people act to love each other truly, care for each other and want people to stay happy, blah blah blah... where they play games in the name of loyalty and sacrifice using big terms like 'forever/for life' and end up laughing on the commitments they made. Marriage is another story.

15-year-old children, these days, be like "We are goals", "I don't need oxygen, I need you.”, “My heart is yours, and we are going to marry" and this crap goes on.

P.S to all these teen couples.

"Most of the love stories in India get ruined because of the Caste system and the rest are ruined by the awkward position of the planets."

And it is so beautiful to see people getting attached to each other and this attachment doesn't let him away. This beautiful scene, I would like to frame it as: All day chatting is not called attachment. When someone emails you and adds an image to it, is called attachment!

Posting pictures all day, and having cute pictures with copied captions from www.google.com makes many friends jealous and increases your "VATT" (image) in the society, But if buttons like "Dislike", "We get it, you're a happy couple", "You're trying too hard”, “TOO MUCH DRAMA", "This shit, again?" existed, it would be another story.

But it is really bliss staying in love and concluding by saying:

"Give love a chance, even the world war happened twice"

Let's move from "Being happy in love" to "love being unhappy"

I like you but as a friend.

The word "friend" never hurt him more.

and this gives rise to a condition where stress, stresses us to a point where we are too stressed to deal with our stress and this term is called stress.

And if you love someone who doesn't love you back, you are indeed waiting for a ship at the airport.

and to all my single buddies out here! whenever she says "Bhul jaao mujhe"

You need to explain this to her "ki humne ratta nahi maara hai, concept clear hai"

But we are humans, and following the human tendency, we always have dreams like:

Me: someday I will be someone's first priority!

where, the reply is like:

someday: HAHAHAHA

someone's: HAHAHAHA

first: HAHAHAHA

priority: HAHAHAHA

Abhi tho phone ki bhi setting hai, bas meri nahi hai!😫

For an instance, If you are assuming that the person loves you, when you are not sure is “Khud ko pagal banana ki ninja technique ding ding ding ding ding”

And if anyone will ask you, “How is your love life?”

You can really express it well how you waste your day scrolling and switching from Instagram to Whatsapp and then Facebook for hours, staring at the happy couples and estimating their validity.

This ad which I saw while I was on my way back home, read as:

“   GOT DITCHED BY YOUR GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND?

      Go to the top floor of the highest building you know.

And think inta bada city hai, koi tho mil jayega.  ”

Concluding ‘anti love’ session by saying…

Fall in love? Just to feel momentary happiness, where you can share your ice cream and smile all your way along your partner and end up with slamming doors and screams, sure! Where do I sign up?

But, as I spoke about human tendency! Its again going to end with…

“Wise men say only fools rush in
But I can't help falling in love with you
Shall I stay
Would it be a sin
If I can't help falling in love with you”

[Elvis Presley - Can't Help Falling In Love ]

All the best!